April 2014

How to Talk to Yourself about Your California Divorce

by Dinnebier & Demmerle on April 25, 2014

Tustin Divorce

In our last five posts, we discussed strategies and tactics for how to talk to other people about your divorce.   But perhaps the most important conversations you will have about the divorce will be with yourself. Neurological research shows that our “self-talk” can have profound, far reaching implications for happiness, productivity, and resilience. Unfortunately, […]

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Tustin Divorce

How should you talk about your divorce with a new boyfriend or girlfriend?   After a divorce or separation, your needs for companionship, love, fulfillment, etc. don’t just disappear. They may lie dormant for a few months, as you process what happened to the relationship. But, eventually, you will probably want to “get back out […]

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How to Talk to Mutual Friends about Your California Divorce

by Dinnebier & Demmerle on April 21, 2014

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Here’s one of the most challenging aspects to getting divorce: how should you present the news to mutual friends? Should you “split up” friends from the marriage? Or is it obnoxious and unfair to force your friends to “choose”?   Despite the proliferation of advice columns, standup comic routines, and even sociological research on these […]

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